Bellefillenoir Gets Weird with her Mygirlfund Review!
April 3, 2013
Bellefillenoire
I came to My Girl Fund completely out of the blue in January 2013.
I had no idea what to expect or what I would find once I was verified. In fact, I didn’t really know what they meant by “verified” at the time either. I figured they were just checking to make sure that I was a real person. I’d done some art stuff that revolved around me proving that I was real so I wasn’t really worried about it. I thought of My Girl Fund as another way for me to sell my paintings, illustrations, drawings and maybe talk with other dudes and ladies. I don’t even remember how I came by the site, it was just something that happened to pop up on my screen and I thought it might be fun.
Thinking back, I suppose I figured it was something like a sexy Etsy!
Once I was verified and able to make content and see what the site was all about I was floored. I had never really thought about stepping into the camgirl community before. It took me completely by surprise but I was super intrigued and interested. I come from a graphic design background with a specialization in social media and marketing collateral, so I could really see the potential for a girl like me on platform like this.
As a woman of color; however, I was apprehensive about how I would be received or treated because I didn’t really see any women of color from the preview part of the site. I was afraid that I would be seen as less than, be treated meanly, or be completely ignored. I didn’t have any expectations about who I would meet or money I would make but I admit that I was scared. Looking back it seems sort of silly now but those were my legitimate fears!
But then I remembered something I told myself as a resolution for this year:
“It’s 2013, get weird with it.”
It was at that moment that I decided to just take the plunge and stick with MGF. I haven’t looked back since and have no plans of giving it up. ❤
I’ve come to really love the community and social aspect with customers that MGF provides. All the girls there are awesome, friendly, and willing to share their experiences with you to help YOU become a better member. I’ve met some really awesome guys and girls on there that have quickly become my regulars and friends. It’s great to know so many beautiful people with all kinds of different knowledge and ideas.
Plus, of course, the guys on MGF almost literally go out of their way to make me feel beautiful! I love waking up to messages from dudes all over the world telling me what a lovely creature I am. That has never happened to me before. Never! I was just that weird geeky girl who knew far too much about Star Wars and never left her house because she was working all the time. Since joining MGF, I’ve never felt more confident, independent, and beautiful.
After I finished college I had trouble finding work and at the graphic design job I did manage to get, I was treated so badly that I had to quit after only 8 months. Then I couldn’t find anything steady after that. I was so depressed that I couldn’t get out of bed. MGF has given me my resolve back, it’s helped me pay my bills, it’s kept all my marketing and branding knowledge in practice, plus it’s helped me become a more prolific artist!
MGF still provides me with the opportunity to be creative and be myself. I’m starting my own sexy comics on there because I felt that’s something the site might be missing. Porn art! And it’s the perfect safe environment for me to try it out on so I figured why not?
That’s why I love MGF so much, it’s just such a great place to explore things you might be curious about in a private environment. Plus it’s so easy to block places by state or country just in case you might want to hide yourself from the masses. MGF support has worked so hard to make it a safe environment and as a model, I am extremely grateful and appreciative of that.
If you’re not already a member of MGF, girl or boy, you’re totally missing out on some great experiences.
It’s 2013, get weird with it!
❤
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I’m slightly bigger than most slim girls nowadays and that has always discouraged me from joining mygirlfund. By no means I’m saying Bellefillenoir is a big girl, but she certainly doesn’t fall in the slim girl category. Maybe beauty really is in the eye of the beholder and maybe I was worrying for nothing. Neither me or Bellefillenoir are big girls, we just happen to have a little more meat than the slimmest of girls. This is a good sign~
Bellefillenoir is beautiful! Plus her graphic design skills are excellent. That girl is going places! You definitely stand a good chance of meeting some great people, and making some money!
I keep reading on the internet and on the newspaper that the economy is supposedly improving, but I really don’t see it translate to the job market or increase in wages and such. I think times like this you really want to have a backup plan and mygirlfund could be that. I enjoy taking photos and showing off my work, but that’s only part of the reason why I want to work with my girl fund. In all honesty money is the number one reason and I just want to have something else other than my 9 to 5 job that I can depend on.
I first thought of my girl fund as a job and as a source of income only, but the more I read about it, it’s a lot more than that. People really love what they do on my girl fund and that’s mainly, because of the the wonderful members, both the clients and the content providers. There seems to be a mutual respect of sort and that often seems to lead to virtual friendships. I think it speaks a lot about the creator of the website and I want to be part of it as well.
As a person of color myself, I’m very encouraged by reading about your experience on My Girl Fund. I too was (and still am) apprehensive about joining my girl fund and mostly because all the girls were caucasian, but your experience is enough to prove to me that I was the one who was being weird and nobody else. To be honest, I’m still a little nervous about getting started on my girl fund, but I want to do this and I want to be successful with it.